Monday, 31 October 2011

Baby Driver

We live opposite a Range Rover and Bentley garage. On a main road. An estate agents nightmare yes but we rather like it, we mostly access our house from the rear so the front windows are for spectator purposes mostly.

The boys used to enjoy to watch the transporter come and deliver the new Range Rovers, maybe once a week or so it would pull up outside and off loading 6 or 7 shiny new cars but not so now, more like several times a day, the novelty has seriously worn off. A garage that was near to closure 3 or 4 years ago when 4x4s were the evil gas guzzlers that typified all that was selfish and wrong with our nation has been saved, really I suspect, by two very snowy winters when the vehicles they sell are what you need if you have to get to work. The new shape Range Rovers are proving really popular too, apparently 11 a day are being sold.

When I'm folding laundry I like watching the Salesmen ( I don't think there are any women) on the forecourt, trying to read the body language of the prospective customers. The Bentley deliveries are fun to view, they arrive in a single dispatch totally covered in fleecy cotton wool. One of the delivery vehicles can deposit them straight into the showroom but the other is too tall and does not fit under the petrol station canopy, this means the expensive (circa £100k depending on the model) have to be rolled onto the busy A road. We watched one covered in fleece travel the treacherous few meters to the showroom last week, the windscreen useless as it was covered in a thick, white blanket!

To me, as a home educator, driving is interesting as a learning experience, not taught in school yet in some areas an almost necessary life skill. It is formally tested and examined and, thanks to the introduction of the theory test has, arguably, become more difficult to avoid structured paid for tuition. Driving tests are rarely held at night or in the snow and yet everyday people drive in these conditions. Prior to the introduction of formal testing though I assume learning to operate a car would have followed a more autonomous pattern. These are the thoughts that fill my brain as I watch the shiny new cars head from the forecourt to their new homes.

Golden Slumbers

"The Star" Golden Square, Petworth, West Sussex. A witch has mis-judged this gap. My children thought she was brilliant. My swinging trio
Golden Slumbers
I am not a major Beatles fan but I do love this song. Only the first 1:30 of it though, stop listening to it after that, it goes right off cue. I can recall owning it on a vinyl record as a child and rushing to lift the needle so as not to have to have the moment ruined.

The glorious decadence that can come from a Monday following the school holidays was somewhat eradicated today by the uber early start of one of our number. That did mean though that we had word game, at his request, done and dusted shortly after 6am!

O was brilliant this morning, regular readers will know he loves jigsaws, and he completed one of Lightning McQueen with a, totally unprompted, "Ker-Chow!" at the end.

S was funny too, shortly after waking up she said "In my dream you sacked the cleaner and I was in heaven because we didn't have a cleaner." S is not keen on the cleaner, well, that is not totally accurate, she likes the cleaner herself she just detests having to clear her bedroom floor and coming home to find her stuff all moved.

So, before 11am S had painted some fashion designs, played a game with O called "bedtimes" and co-oped me into helping with a mermaid project from her Usborne Mermaid things to make and do book (but I am not very good at painting on aluminium foil and mixing glue and food colouring was harder than I had anticipated) and E had turned his knights castle into a Halloween party.

Everyone seemed pretty happy at home but I felt some fresh air might be appropriate (I know, I can't help it!) so we popped over to the nearby Medieval town of Petworth for a play and the park and we spotted this witch who had crashed into a building. The Smalls thought she was great.

On the drive over to Petworth we called into the Southern Harvesters tractor shop. We used to take E there so often when he was two that I one stage I suspect the owners thought I was casing the joint! They have a great forecourt of new and used Claas tractors and implements which O just loves to see. Strewing for 2 year olds, taking them places they like to go. S & E were looking at books in the car so they didn't mind too much. Pleasing all of the people all of the time..........

As we were walking back to the car we saw the most enormous pile of dog poo on the path, seriously, it was bigger than my poo! and we alerted an elderly gentleman to its existence, he thanked us, complained about the state of the nation and then asked the children why they hadn't gone back to school yet. As he asked them not me I let them answer which they did and then he looked to me for confirmation. "It's true" I said and he just picked up the pace, started whistling and headed off. No questions about: social life, sports, legal entitlement. Nothing. Why can't every GP encounter be so pleasant!

Sunday, 30 October 2011

Ferrari Lego 8645

Link This is the original TV advert for the set

Ferrari lego 8645 - Google Search

We bought this epic Ferrari lego set on holiday in Italy last year. I spotted it reduced in the basement of a supermarket as the box was pretty damaged. It is a great set from 2004. The pit crew have brilliant balaclavas on under their helmets. The Daddy One put it together at the weekend, a tricks task when it was box fresh but with all the pieces jumbled up with the rest of the lego it was rather an undertaking.

I wanted to add the lego posts on to the lego page but I am not sure how to. Anyone?

Can you mend a broken heart?

Fittleworth Swing Park - On our own again. How do the good people of West Sussex entertain their children on a Sunday morning?
Yes, we took our hot sausage sandwiches to the park on plates. People expect us to be weird and frankly, why disappoint them!
This is Mack Semi Hauler. O likes to give him his full title
Brand New Roller Skate Barbie. When S saw her she said "Did you know roller skates were invented by John Joseph Merlin?" I swallow my words about Barbies dumbing things down. (n.b I haven't checked this fact on google but either way it sounds impressive. Deliver with confidence, people are less likely to challenge you, that's my tip.)
Beautiful display at Fishers Today Home grown saffron harvested at the allotment today
How on earth is it only midday? Oh, that must be the pleasure of the bi-annual mess with time. We have already: harvested saffron at the allotment, handled a delayed doll bereavement crisis, been to Fittleworth Park, popped into Fishers Farm, filled up the bus with petrol and it is only just lunchtime?!

Regular readers will know that Skipper's leg came off this week. Regular readers can skip the next paragraph.

Skipper is Barbie's independent younger sister. Our particular Skipper was the first ever toy that S (6) saved up for with her own money. She came in a double pack with Chelsea (whose arm detached shortly after purchase) and a skateboard and is part of the Sisters Roll ("When Sisters roll, it outta control") series. On the day we bought her O had an epic tantrum at the self service till whilst S fed her collection of small change into the machine. We all remember that experience well.

Shortly after we bought Skipper she vanished and then, a month or so later, she turned up again, anyway the adventure continued last week when her leg came off. S was devastated but I hadn't acknowledge how devastated until this morning when she asked me if she could bury Skipper or put her on display in my teapot cabinet.

This started a whole series of conversations about what we do with broken people in our society. I suggested burial was pretty final for someone with only one leg as we often see people in wheelchairs for example. S was not to be comforted. There were Big hot tears, so many that I cried too. This has been a big life experience for S. The saving up, the bonding, the dissapointment. I checked with The Daddy One for a green light and we agreed that S could have a replacement on us and, in Blue Peter mode, I did have one I bought earlier in the cupboard. She was a Stacie though not a Skipper but I thought this might be better as a direct replacement might be a bit harsh. It seems to have helped and, just now, S asked me to get Skipper out of the cupboard to introduce her to the new arrivals and she hasn't gone back. Apparently for only 2 months you could buy a Barbie in a wheelchair.

I suspect you might be reading this thinking we are a bit daft / soft (delete as applicaable) but it goes like this for me. We won't always be able to fix what's broken for her, bigger things will come along, but, whilst we can, we will. That's us.

At the park S asked me which is the longest river the Nile or Amazon? We had a great chat about the wikipedia page and how you must first define what you mean by longest. I imagined her on a pub quiz or mastermind or something quoting Voltaire "If you wish to converse with me, define your terms!"

Very thrilled to have our own saffron for cakes and risttos with limited space and time we have always operated on the grow things that are expensive to buy philosophy and this is no exception.

Saturday, 29 October 2011

Diamonds

S had this diamond paperweight for Christmas last year, She likes to play museums with it.

Diamonds

After moaning about the latest Ben Howard album on the blog last week he is here again. Guess I just can't make up my mind!

On the way home today, descending down Bury Hill, the car in front of ours missed a pheasant by millimeters

"Shit, that was close."

said the 4 year old in the back. I have no real issues with appropriate swearing. The Daddy One wrote off a car swerving to miss a fox some 4 years ago now and consequently our "you or me" attitude is pretty hardened. Before we reached the bottom of Bury Hill I spotted 5 lumps of pheasant coloured road kill.

Glorious lazy afternoon. Watched The Pink Panther (1963) version about a diamond thief. Then, for family movie night, we watched "The Wrong Trousers" (which we have never seen before because S used to be scared of it) strangely it was again about a theft of a large diamond followed by Madagascar. Although we have watched almost all of the Pixar animations we have not seen to many of the DreamWorks productions. My best bit was the American Beauty spoof as I am a fan of that film.

S has a spy party coming up in 10 days or so and the theme is a jewel mystery. There seems to be a theme!

Been planning mine and S's London day on Tuesday. I say planning but really I am just researching strewing options to present to her on the day. Although for both of us I think hangman on the train remains the highlight :)

Light My Fire

Light my Fire
We used to sing this to our Sapphire when she was a baby, I know it isn't the original but I prefer this version.

Five home days ended today with a trip to Littlehampton Beach. I won a Barbie House on ebay and the vendor turned out to be right by the sea, I snuck off to collect it whilst The Smalls played in the sand with The Daddy One. The seller advise me to be early as today is Littlehampton bonfire and 30,000 people are expected to attend, she wasn't wrong. the town was very busy.

You might already know that Sussex has a long history of bonfire societies dating back to around the 1550s

We called into Southview Dairy on the way home, the new farm shop is nearly finished and should be ready after Christmas. talking of Christmas I booked my Christmas ocado slot today and the Barbie house was supposed to be me being organised for Christmas too but it is so fabulous I might have to bring it forward to the upcoming birthday.

Link This time next week will be party day, am pleased we have laid low this week, with 4 family birthdays we are pretty hectic between now and Christmas. In addition to my chef, cleaner, PA, shopper and facilitator roles I am also the gate keeper of commitments so if we land up with too few or too it really is down to me!

Another terrible night with O. he was awake at 1, 2 and 3am British Summer Time ends tonight and we, theoretically, gain an hour in bed.

Friday, 28 October 2011

Les La Bas

Barbie does Halloween O in his den Elizabeth I glove puppet rSnack time. red pepper, chicken nuggets, cottage cheese, peanut butter E took the photos today.
One conclusion from our hibernating week at home is that staying in is seriously messy. Every single room in our house looks burgled. The front bedroom has some dogs boarding a plane next to a full scale playmobil strategic red vs green battle, the lego zone is bricktastic, Everest's of laundry litter the place, the front room has been the scene of epic den building and role play, in and around half finished brio track, duplo building and cars cars with the table covered in fabrics for making a karate outfit for Barbie, who is sporting her new Halloween web skirt and witch print boob tube.

If that paragraph lacks punctuation it is probably because that is how I feel about the impending clear-up! Should match today's musical selection well. Oh, and the kitchen........... well, when there is no obvious point where one meal ends and another begins I shall file that under "ongoing." I am hiding in the den to type this, it's very clear and clean in here ;-)

Today S has made puppets. A jester and liz the first, we have made carrot cakes and The Smalls made popcorn in a popcorn maker with our Friday home ed helper.

The scales have some new batteries. E finally wore the old ones out weighing playmobil knights yesterday.

Visitors this afternoon, a Little friend for O to play cars with and a lovely Mum to try and chat to but actually I was mostly watching scooter stunts in the garden and building a lego attack ship. Even if I say so myself I think my spontaneous lego builds are improving.

Haven't checked the diary but I think we are out and about a fair bit next week. London on Tuesday for sure :) The sibling dynamics have worked well this week though, S is great at occupying O but, everything in moderation!

Thursday, 27 October 2011

Tombo in 7/4

The ball from the duplo catapult got stuck up in the light this morning.
Mistakenly I thought that E was really shattered last night so I offered a story thinking he would sleep pretty fast........ I read the whole of The Clone Wars and an Usborne Gladiator book before he dozed off. Well over an hours reading. I guess that's what they call 'The Literacy Hour.' S was reading too, re-reading 'The Order of the Phoenix.' O woke up at 2am asking to go home.........I wasted a while telling him he was home which made him cry so eventually I hit on the idea of telling him he could go home and he went straight back to sleep. These broken nights are breaking me, out of practise I am.

4th home today in a row today, perhaps I should change the blog name to 'only gallivant in term time'.......Our local Italian friends came over after French friends yesterday... The Smalls have a surprising number of bilingual friends. We had cake, coffee and some of the tiramisu that S made yesterday and a play and chat.

This afternoon S had a moan that I had cleared the Barbie beds away, I said I hadn't then told her I was washing her slippers from last year to see if I could cheer them up a bit, these little Joule slipper sock things, and she yelled at me "Those were the Barbie Beds!!" Opps.....

Made a lego jungle with all the trees for the rebel soliders to hide in.

Friends to share cakes with

Wednesday, 26 October 2011

The Pink Panther

O adores this game - Vintage retro Fisher Price - He calls it "Dogs ramper ramper" Party Invite lego trio Double rainbow in our back garden Fashion design I was a massive Pink Panther fan in my youth.

Because, like, well I didn't already know that rules were only made so that they could be broken the early part of today, I'm talking circa 4am, was a body fluids carnival....... A festive of bed wetting, nose bleeds....... I am scrapping that blogging rule. It has served its purpose.

We have had a fab third day of half term hibernation today. Grandma was here first thing meaning I had a bath, boiled eggs & dunkers followed by fruit salad with yogurt for breakfast rather than random children's left overs. Clean and full. Always a better way to go.

The Smalls played in the, currently seriously messy, lego room for a while whist Grandma did some ironing and we booked tickets for the pantomime at the Yvonne Arnaud on Grandma's birthday. I shall soon have to commence operation "It is unlikely you will be picked to go on stage two years in a row" - You can see the hilarious clip of last year's panto in this post

Home Ed friends over this morning, S's friend mainly but they did a sterling job of including E, they made fashion design pictures using fabrics and templates.

This afternoon we saw a double rainbow in the garden, rained today for the first time in ages including hail first thing.

Have won a Christmas present on ebay, now all I have to do is tihnk of how to collect it without arousing suspicion.

S has been invited to a Home Ed friend's Top Agent Spy Party. The invite came in the post today "The Mystery of the Stolen Gems", she is thrilled. I am thinking she might like to watch the Pink Panther movie with me, the original Peter Sellers of course......

Delia's leek, bacon and cheesy pasta bake for supper tonight. Autumn food.

Tuesday, 25 October 2011

Baby Small

O, 2, didn't sleep this afternoon, he nearly did about 4pm but we distracted him with a bath so then he got all overtired and wired and didn't crash out til nearer 9pm. He is now the age that his big brother was when he was born and has blond hair not this black hair he was born with.

A Blogging Game

  • Susie who blogs about home educating her gorgeous daughter Hannah, who is a little older than my biggest, nominated me in a blog game. Susie's was one of the first UK Home Ed blogs I read when it was shared on twitter via our local Science Centre called Intech. We haven't met yet even though Susie only lives about 30 miles away from us. I have never played a blog game before but I have to tell you 7 things about myself and then pass this award onto my favorite newly discovered bloggers and let them know.
Seven Things About Me -

1/ As a child I really wanted to be a Private Detective, Inspector Clouseau was my hero, and lately I've been thinking I'd have been a pretty good one.

2/ I like the beach and really enjoyed the time I spent living by the sea in Brighton, especially the rhythm of the waves.

3/ t has taken me a long time to get along with other Mums, coming for a very male culture when I worked in the city I found the transistion, and the lack of banter, very hard.

4/I am really scared of buttons, managable if they are attached to clothes but a detatached one on the ground? Game Over!

5/Being the mother I am has made me see so much of my family history in a different light.

6/ I have met some amazing people because of our choice to opt out of mainstream schooling.

7/ I am not a real home educator because I can't do camping, I really love a comfy bed and fluffy towels.

And finally, I'm passing the awards on to

Zoe at Barras Home School of Excellence

Lisa at An Ordinary Life

HigglePea at Vintage HigglePea

Unqualified Education ( part two )

I have finished reading Unqualified Education, well I finished it a while ago but haven't had chance to write it up and today when my Mum was here (actually she still is, and she has her two biggest Grandchildren curled up asleep either side of her - inter~generational co-sleeping) I was going to and then I couldn't find the book and I found my Mum reading it!! But, I digress...

It might be worth reading this post first if you didn't read it at the time as it now has 15 comments on.

There are a few points in the book, just as in One-to-One, that I am not totally cool with, the author makes a couple of historical generalisations that detract from the book's credibility for example but.......as a way of thinking about committing to home educating for the long term and the practicalities of this it has certainly been really helpful for me. This quote, right near the end of the book: "Schoolchildren are consistently told that exams are important and some of this conditioning permeates through to people who do not go to school; they assume that their path must, at some point, converge with people who do go to school, and that the time will come when they must stop the work they are doing, however rewarding it might be, and sit some exams so that they can get qualifications, go to University etc."

and then he goes on to say "These assumptions deserve to be questioned........."
really struck a note with me, in my mind I can see now that there are at least two, and probably more, paths we can choose to travel and it is not necessary to have plans in place to build a bridge from one to the other. This type of visual picture is very useful. He is right of course, there is a widely held assumption that at some point you will once again hook up with the real world and hope that they forgive you your sins........
and later it in this section he goes on to say:
"Many people find themselves doing jobs that they do not enjoy, and working for businesses of which they do not approve. This is disastrous both on a personal level and for society as a whole, the work you do should be a reflection of everything you have learnt over your education........"

which, whilst it might seem a little idealistic to some is, in my opinion, a very worthy goal. There are people for whom the boundaries between work and pleasure are very blurred and I have no issue with aiming to be in that state. Living for the weekend is not an ideal state of mind. At the present time my eldest makes no distinction between work and play and, as I commented today, is as likely to read a science dictionary as a Harry Potter books.

Yesterday I had a really thought provoking conversation with Julie Daniel about using "un" as in Unschooling and how it is not always good to be the 'un' of something but to be something else completely different. I the UK we tend to refer to Unschooling using autonomous which, to my ear, sounds more positive. Historically and Geographically school was not always the norm so why be "un" it was sort of what we were thinking. The same could be said of the title for this book but of course it is a bit cleverer than that adding education onto the end!

Anyway, overall I am really pleased I have read this book at this time, it has left me feeling affirmed and committed.

Sweet Like Chocolate (Part Two)

Vanilla Extracting Chocolate malteaser cupcake Chocolate covered coffee beans O is in his new green flannel pyjamas playing Making cakes
Halloween match box swap arrives for E

Sweet Like Chocolate

I had a "light bulb" moment in the early hours of this morning. Maltitol. The main ingredient in some vitamin sweets I purchased a few weeks ago, primarily to supplement Big Small's fruitless diet in the winter months but which all of The Smalls have taken a fancy to.

****Body Fluids alert**** We have had "issues" with Maltitol before and I am certain it is the reason Middle Small has been missing the toilet so much lately because in large does it is a laxative and probably explains why he has been acting and feeling a bit frantic too.

Grandma and Grandie arrived shortly after 7am this morning, about the same time as the shopping delivery, the first time we have seen them in 3 weeks and everyone was very excited! Brilliant to have them back home. Dad and I moved the giant water tank at the allotment and the compost bin. We made home made pizza for lunch. The over worked Kitchen Aid has made some choc cupcakes and their buttercream icing too. Since noticing in the John Lewis Christmas catalogue that a new one is over £400 (more than twice the bill for ours 10 years ago) ours has even been treated to a clean. The Smalls have pressies from Oz - O has some PJS that he loves so much he has worn them almost all day, S has a butterfly top and E a turtle T-Shirt. Thank-You x x :-) The Daddy One and I have some chocolate covered coffee beans which we are rather partial too.

I am having a bash at making some home made vanilla extract for economic reasons you understand! 100ml of vanilla extract costs approximately £5 depending on where you buy it so, for £20 for a litre of vodka and £3 for 4 vanilla pods I am hoping to produce our own for about £2.30 per 100ml roughly half the price. My friend (& former midwife) first blogged about this some two years ago and I have been meaning to attempt it ever since. Will keep you posted.

In Other News

E showed off his magnets reading to Grandie. His matchbox swap landed on the mat and he promptly used the contents to make a great card.

I hope to finish the book review post of 'Unqualified Education' tonight.